1. “Think outside of the box.” If you’re part of a BIG thing, think of ways on how to be more efficient and productive. If you’re involved in a sinking situation, get out of it quick before you sink with everyone else.

2. “Make quality a priority.” There are no shortcuts. Giving a little extra, living by higher standards and paying close attention to details really make a difference. Do not be a mediocre.

3.  “Do what you love and love what you do.” Find a job that provides you direction, gives you purpose and satisfies your life. You may even live longer if you do this.

4. “There shouldn’t be any space for procrastination.” Do I need to explain that?

5. “Make a difference in this world, by not preaching or being self-righteous. Instead, set an example.”

6. “Don’t be afraid to dream.” Our imagination is limitless. If you think you’ve found the next big thing, jump right out of bed and decide on it quickly. Usually, the first step is the hardest…what follows is just a piece of cake.

7. “Do your best in everything.” Success invites greater success, you gotta stay hungry for it.

8. “Mistakes happen, let go, move forward and learn from them.” Even the most successful person commits mistakes. Who doesn’t?

9. “Strive to be a leader.” In case you become one, lead WISELY. You’re here in this universe to make your mark, otherwise, why would you be here anyway?

10. “Follow your heart.” It’s your own effin’ life. Be your own boss.

Motherhood brings with it a natural instinct for childcare. There are times when you wish you knew more about handling situations such as when your child is sick, recovering from illness or is suffering from a chronic disease. During these times, the best position to be in is to know what a NURSE would do in these kinds of situations.

The opposite happens to me when my children are not well. I lose all my nursing skills and worry a lot. Well, I guess worrying is an integral part of parenthood. You cannot flush it out from a mother’s system.

Sometimes I think things would be easier if I didn’t know quite so much about nursing.

To not see Maya’s smile every morning when she wakes up, to not hear Jaiden’s goodnight prayer before bedtime and to not feel Ross’ soft kiss on my forehead every night before I hit the bed, are just some of the nightmares I have to face. Only one thought makes me happy and hopeful…that the sacrifice I will have to make, will give them the brightest future ever.

“Man, alone, has the power to transform his thoughts into physical reality; man, alone, can dream and make his dreams come true.” Napoleon Hill

Jaiden and Maya are too young to tell you how a wonderful father you are, so let me say this in their behalf: Thank you for taking care of us everyday, prioritizing our needs over yours, and letting us know and feel we’re safe when you’re around. We love you Pa, even if we don’t say it everyday, with every kiss that lands on your lips, nose and oily forehead, you will know how much you mean to us. No words can ever describe. You are our wall and our rock. We are not going anywhere. You are what we need to be whole. We love you Papa. Happy Father’s Day!

CHAT I

Hubby: “Uminit dugo ko ampotah.”

Wife: “Bakit?”

Hubby: “Nag bid ako 10$ for site transfer ng 1 site, tapos babanat na ma-change ko rin daw ba hitsura ng site para mas maging appealing. Hambalusin ko cia eh.

Wife: “Hahaha.”

Hubby: “Sana me virtual BASEBALL BAT noh, ung pwede mo ihampas.”

CHAT II

Hubby: “Ma, alagaan mo mga anak ko pag wala na si Papa ah. Huwag mo hahayaan magka-peklat si Maya.”

Wife: “Hahaha.”

Hubby: “Si Jaiden lagi mo ibibili ng ICE CREAM.

Wife: “Ako pa!.”

Hubby: “At please, MAG-BUDGET ka naman!”

CHAT III

Hubby: “Ma, alagaan mo mga anak ko pag wala na si Papa ah.”

Wife: “Talk to the hand Papa, I’m working.”

Hubby: “Kamay, alagaan mo mga anak ko pag wala na si Papa ah.”

Wife: “Hahaha.”

Maya has just turned 2 months. It is the perfect time to introduce her to Christianity. I am currently preparing her baptismal party which will be attended by “close family and friends” (ONLY). Ross and I want it to be simple and private as possible without all the glitz.

Date: ******

Time: ******

Church: St. John the Evangelist Church

Officiating Priest: Our family friend, Father Willy Lucas (thank you for accepting our invitation)

Godparents:

Ronaldo San Pedro

Lyn De Franz

Albert Dumo

Jennilyn Delos Santos

Dangelo Sangalang

Gale Francisco

Luncheon: Max’s Restaurant (thanks to Isabel and Den of Max’s)

Invitations and Tarpaulin Design: Mer de Franz

Souvenirs: Towel Cakes by Pia Flores

Cake: Butterfly Cake and Cupcakes – Red Ribbon

Makikilala na ni Maya si BRO.

The Center for Life Improvement and Health Development (C.H.I.L.D) House Project was founded by Ricky Reyes, Philippine Charity Sweepstakes Office (PCSO), Metro Manila Development Authority (MMDA), and several NGOs and specialty hospitals. Its mission is to provide shelter for children and young adults who are afflicted with cancer and other diseases. Their immediate family’s burden is lessened knowing that these kids have a place to stay while undergoing treatment.

Now that PCSO is transferring office from Quezon City to Manila, CHILD HOUSE was requested to vacate their office without any assurance of relocation.

Let’s find shelter for these kids. Christmas is just around the corner. I hope those who have more than enough in their pockets, find generosity in their hearts and help these children look for a new home.

Like Jaiden and Maya, I wish these children have a merriest Christmas ever.

Ross -Yna

October 7, 2005

We have taken the seven steps.
You have become mine forever.
Yes, we have become partners.
I have become yours.
Hereafter, I cannot live without you.
Do not live without me.
Let us share the joys.
We are word and meaning, united.
You are thought and I am sound.

Happy Anniversary Papa!

I LOVE YOU.