Winning Him Back
A friend told me she wants her man back. She’d do anything to get him back.
It is always natural for women to feel frustrated and depressed when they lose someone special. Breaking up is like Armageddon (Thanks Moe for the word 
). Im also guilty as most of them, at one point in time.
The question is, would you really win a man back if you pester him with all manner of demands, buying him gifts, calling him, sending him text messages for every God forsaken minute of the day. I have done all of these before and there will come a time that you get tired and nothing will happen.
The question is, it is worth the time and effort to win him back? Is he still inlove with you to start with? Figure it out. If the answer is YES, prove to him that you’re worth a second chance.
This time, be smart. Don’t drown the man with desperate words of begging. Give him time off. Avoid contact, do your normal activities, go out with friends and socialize. Be busy! If he misses you, he’d call. You can start celebrating. But if does not, accept the fact that you lost him completely and set the man free. Life goes on.
Filed under Impromptu | Comment (0)Filipino Crab
Crabmentality is a cultural phenomenon in the Philippines. We are being compared to a group of crabs ready to be cooked. Each crab tries to escape from heat and untimely death and they will try to pull each other down until they get out. If only the crabs work together, most of them will be out of the pot in no time.
Today, crabmentality simply means “If I can’t have it, neither can you”. It is evident in politics, sports, businesses or even in your own family and friends. Filipinos would rather pull each other down than succeed all together.
Why am I writing about this? Maybe I was a victim at one time but I chose not to retaliate. It is just so sad that even within my set of friends, crab mentality can be felt. Why can’t one be happy for the other?
Filed under Impromptu | Comments (2)Anger and Silence
The saying that silence is the best answer to anger is true. It is hard to tell a person that you’re upset. One would prefer that the other reads his/her thoughts as to the reason why. Is it being unfair? Or is silence a cowardly way of admitting that you’re sad? Or maybe you’re just too afraid to engage in conflict. Or maybe both.
Filed under Impromptu | Comment (0)Prayers for Haiti
A 7.0 magnitude earthquake was experienced in Haiti last January 13. More than 100,000 people feared dead. The nation’s capital Port-au-Prince was flattened.
My prayers go to the Haiti nationals and to those who lost their homes, family members and friends. May God keep you and give you hope.
Filed under Impromptu | Comment (0)What Do You Think Is The Best Name For A Baby Girl?
NO Im not pregnant! Just trying to scout for a nice name for a baby girl.
I want the first name to be Maria if that’s possible.
The second name can be any name compatible with Maria. It can start with letter A, S, Y, K or J.
Hmmmm.
Andrei: Maria Sofia, Maria Cassandra, Maria Beatrice or you can try Maria Dionisia! Go go paquio! :p
I wish malapit na dumating ang baby girl nyo ni Ross…. She’ll be a beauty I’m sure! 
Andrei: just thought of more names: Maria Antonette, Maria Ysabel, Maria Kristina.
Yna: That’s funny. I was thinking of Maria Antoinette or Maria Ysabelle!
